Discussing sex with a transvestite is always a subject that leaves a lot of room for discussion. After all, we know that a large number of men enjoy this practice, however, prejudice causes absolute secrecy to be maintained.
In addition, when they are discovered for any reason, this can lead to enormous shame, in addition, society's judgment can have disastrous consequences, as in several cases that we follow on TV, showing men who, in order to hide their desires for transvestite people or transsexuals, end up committing crimes against these people.
If for men who enjoy sex with transvestites the business is not easy, for them, even less. According to a report by Antra (National Association of Transvestites and Transsexuals), Brazil, in the year 2023, remained for the 14th consecutive year at the top of the countries that most kill transvestites and transsexuals. In second and third place are Mexico and the United States, respectively.
However, despite such shameful data, Brazil is also on the list of countries where pornographic content involving transvestites is most accessed. In addition, several pages and applications are exclusively aimed at meeting trans women and transvestites. This shows how hypocritical our society is, as they seek this type of pleasure to the same extent that they seek to eliminate this portion of the population.
It's important to keep an open mind when analyzing other people's sexual issues. When it comes to attraction, love or sexual interest, each of us has a particular characteristic. Thus, it is fundamental to avoid generalizations, since the probability of finding a fatalistic answer is quite uncertain.
Even so, there are some very common reasons why some men prefer sex with transvestites or exclusively enjoy having a romantic relationship with them:
Physical attraction plays a fundamental role in our sexuality, sometimes we are attracted to a specific type of person, a physical characteristic or even an intellectual factor can govern where our attraction is aimed.
For many men, the combination of masculine and feminine elements presented by transvestites can generate a strong attraction. Thus, this combination, which for many cannot be found in cis women, makes many men prefer to relate to transvestites.
It's not just sexual attraction that drives men to seek out these women. The emotional and intellectual side can drive desire, so some may be attracted to a transvestite's life experiences and personality. This is independent of the person's gender identity.
Many men feel the desire to break certain standards imposed by society. In these cases, gender norms are challenged when relating to a transvestite. These men usually feel a physical and emotional affinity or attraction for people who challenge traditionality with regard to masculinity and femininity.
Daily routine can undermine any relationship. Sometimes traditional sex becomes dull and the couple can become emotionally distant. In this way, many men seek in transvestites the comfort that they often do not have within the family. Because they have experience with the most diverse types of people, transvestites are much sought after not only for sex, but as true advisers and providers of affection for the men with whom they relate.
As we said, routine can undermine any relationship or after a certain time, even a couple with a busy sex life may need to innovate in their intimate relationships. In this way, some men may see the relationship with transvestites as an opportunity to innovate in sex.
Human sexuality is quite complex. Someone's sexual identity cannot be defined based on their preferences, so we have to understand that liking transvestites does not make a man defined as gay, this is a question that involves several other factors.
Sexual orientation refers to an enduring pattern of romantic or sexual attraction to other people, therefore, straight, gay, bisexual and other men may be attracted to transvestites. It is essential that we respect and understand the diversity of guidelines that exist.
