Many people have heard of tantric sex, however, few really know what that means, and when we talk about the subject, several doubts are hovering in the head. But what is this tantric sex, how is done?
These are some of the many questions we will address on this topic, which is of interest to anyone who wants to raise the level of their intimate relationships.
Then the Tantra is defined as a word of Sanskrit origin, which means TAN=weave and TRA= instrument, but in our oriental language, it received the meaning of a doctrine that embraces a series of spiritual teachings and sexual.
According to his teachings, he considers that all living beings are made of energy, even if they are vegetable or mineral. Tantric culture states that all of us, living beings on this planet, were created as androgens, but we ended up split into two beings, the male and female. Because of this, according to those who hold this belief, we would only get satisfaction by finding our corresponding opposite.
Thus, based on this energetic principle, Tantra began to be seen from other perspectives, such as the tantric sex, the subject that really interests us. Tantric sex sees intimate relationships in an erotic as well as a spiritual way. Tantric sex is an eastern philosophy that has been around for over 4 years.
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Thus, conventional sex needs no comment, however let's define it so that the difference between both is clear. At the common sex, the one we usually practice on a daily basis, body activity is often intense, and can be totally free of any emotional involvement between both. The goal of common sex is to reach orgasm, no one can deny that. In tantric sex, however, there is no final goal. When the couple is involved in this practice, they do it slowly, without rushing, since the orgasm is only a consequence of the moment experienced.
Because couples who practice tantric sex manage to raise the level of the relationship, since it is not just about sex, but about a much deeper spiritual connection. The feelings of both are enhanced, generating much more beneficial sensations in relation to the other. Tantric sex is having self-love, and without it we cannot nurture feelings for the other, therefore with the affective strengthening of each one, restoring and elevating the love between the couple.
Those who practice tantric sex can reach a higher level with regard to acceptance of themselves and others. It is excellent for those who want to get rid of inferiority problems.
Many people, even those who don't know anything about tantric sex, agree with the issue of energy influencing our lives. Sometimes people attribute certain types of problems to accumulated negative energies and tantric sex is ideal to get them all out and provide a true cleaning in our mind and body.
Well, for many people the act of having sex is nothing more than penetration followed by an orgasm, but with tantric sex this goes far beyond the physical, it is an emotional delivery, a connection that both will create during the relationship and that will greatly improve how sex happens between you.
Initially, many couples suffer from the routine that ends up disturbing the relationship after a while. Problems often happen at work, at home and also taking care of children is not an easy task. There are several factors that make a relationship that was once very hot, end up becoming completely lukewarm, and tantric sex has been there all this time to help these couples make up for lost time and light the flame that once existed.
So, these two are evils of the century and affect thousands of people every year. Tantric sex helps relieve symptoms, as it promotes a better relationship with us, with our body and spirit, as well as promoting an improvement in interaction with the environment where we live.
Although every woman has the anatomical capacity to achieve multiple orgasms, however, a small amount of them actually do. Studies show that only 15% of them achieve this feat, but practicing tantric sex, it becomes much easier to reach the climax several times during a sexual relationship.
The bad experiences we live end up marking our lives and causing a lack of mental balance. With the practice of tantric sex, these wounds undergo healing energy and are excluded from our unconscious.
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There are some keys within tantric sex, which are necessary to achieve a happier life.
If you are a person in a hurry, who cannot maintain concentration and all your senses during sexual intercourse, it is important to stick to this concept. Tantric doctrine tells us that we should take advantage of everything we are living in the present moment.
Self-acceptance within this philosophy is very important. It's not just about accepting those small physical flaws that we may have, it's about feeling good about the person you've become, having self-love.
It is important to have courage and know how to express what we are feeling. Saying what you want and asking for it are fundamental issues to achieve quality in your sex life. Communication is the key to pleasure.
Feel your partner, enjoy the movement of your bodies, create a perfect and comfortable condition for things to flow properly.
To start tantric sex, it is important to know if you are willing to start with this act, if it is an idea that really pleases both partners, it is the first step for everything to flow as desired.
If you really want to get started with tantric sex, it's important to take your time. The couple should take it easy, reserve at least 3 hours a day to enjoy this experience. No wanting to reach orgasm right away and end it, enjoy the touches, your partner's body and the union between you.
To practice tantric sex, you need to have an open mind, even if it may seem like a minor thing. Don't stop liking something because of taboos or fears. Let go and put into practice what you want.
One of the most important things in tantric sex is choosing the place where you want to practice. The place must be clean, with a pleasant aroma and very comfortable so that the couple can enjoy the experience to the fullest. Explore all your senses, choose the ideal light, it can be with candles, it's worth putting a flavoring and using your touch well. Fruits, chocolates and other aphrodisiac foods are an excellent choice to compose the environment and climate between the couple.
Nothing beats taking a very relaxing bath before starting. It's good to catch up on body hygiene, in addition to preparing the ground for the experience that will happen between you.
First of all, when you are in the environment to have the relationship with the desired person, the couple must sit comfortably, one in front of the other with their legs crossed and do breathing exercises before starting. This will help both of you to relax and establish a connection.
7. Eye to Eye
The eyes can show the soul of each one, as the oldest said. During tantric sex, it is essential that you maintain eye contact, this will make you both more comfortable and accomplices during the relationship.
The tantric kiss cannot be missing. The couple must keep breathing in synchrony and with slightly open lips, both come into contact sharing the same way of breathing.
We've already talked about this subject in other articles and we couldn't leave it out of this list of tips. Tantric massage is ideal for creating that pleasant atmosphere and getting your partner excited. Take at least 20 minutes to enjoy this practice.
Because, for many specialists in tantric sex, delaying orgasm ends up making the experience much more intense and satisfying for the couple. The two can stimulate each other to the point where they feel that orgasm is approaching, and stop to start again.
There's a lot playlists No. Spotify and elsewhere to make the experience more immersive. You can put on a relaxing melody that makes you tune in.
In this position, the woman lies on her back and the man raises her hips while her knees are on the floor. She puts her feet on his chest, providing a much deeper contact, which facilitates the orgasm.
By the way, this is the most classic position of tantric sex. O sits in the lotus position, with his legs crossed, while she sits on his lap with her legs wrapped around his body, holding onto his back. This position should allow for comfortable and deep penetration.
Do you know the famous position of four tantric version? With elbows and knees supported, the woman is penetrated by her partner, who remains standing promoting deeper contact.
This way, the man is standing on the edge of the bed, the woman in his lap holding him by the neck and with her legs around his waist. He must hold his partner by the hips and initiate penetration. This position requires a little physical fitness to be able to keep your partner safe during the relationship.
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