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Sex on the first date: are there any rules?

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Who was never in doubt about sex on the first date, Is not it? Mainly in the sense of reflecting on being right or not.

But, let me tell you that there is no reason for this neura to happen. Do you know why? Because many times, you fantasize so much about whether that is right or not, how much it can make the other person think things about you, but forget that, in fact, it is all a matter of dialogue.

And, above all, understanding, since, in fact, people are different and their thoughts about it too. It could be, for example, that sex on the first date has not even been considered with your partner, as you are both shy and prefer to let it go.

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But that doesn't mean it won't happen, you know? At the time, a mood can happen and it ends in sex. And ready. No one needs to blame or judge the other for this issue. It happened and that's it.

The same can happen in the opposite direction. You talked that, if it happened, everything would be fine for both of you, but at the time, the weather didn't get so hot. Just be careful, in this case, not to make the other person create so many expectations and at the time, end up disappointing them. Not that you need to live to please others, but there are people who start a fire and then don't move on.

It's worth remembering that, unlike what many people think, sex on the first date can help and not hinder. Since, he allows a connection to happen between the two people. And also, it always leaves a taste of wanting more.

Therefore, that sexist idea that who has sex on the first date is too easy, has nothing.

Sex on the first date gets in the way of becoming a date?

Many women view the issue of sex on the first date in this way. As if, when it happens, men don't want anything to do with them anymore because they already got what they wanted. But that never was and never will be a rule.. There are many cases of women who spend months guarding themselves because they think that way and that, when they give in, the man disappears in the same way.

It is also worth noting that, therefore, there is no rule in this regard. That's why experts make it so clear that, in fact, creating a bond from sex makes the couple more intimate and the chances of more encounters happening is real.

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Especially when you manage to play a kind of game of seduction. In which, at each stage, things are happening with a little more intensity.

However, it is also worth noting that thinking about the subject all the time may not be beneficial at all, as it makes people tense and they are unable to enjoy the moment as they should. So things end up being forced, which is not positive at all. Therefore, if you have any doubts about this, to the point that it is not doing you any good, the best option is not to program, but to enjoy the moment.

More about the study

Two renowned universities in particular, one based in Israel and the other in New York, stated that, in the midst of a study, they detected that sexual desire plays a very relevant role and if it is present from the beginning, it changes everything and facilitates the relationship.

That is, this has been proven, it is not just speculation. So, yes, sex on the first date can and should happen when both decide and desire it.

And does this have anything to do with feelings too? Total! Because this connection that ends up being created automatically works with the emotional part. And that, both in the male and female sense. It's not just men who can make women fall in love, for example, but vice versa as well.

To give you an idea of ​​how much people have changed their minds about sex on a first date, today, at least forty percent of women who use dating sites use their own home to arrange the first date.

However, another relevant point is that not everyone is really willing to have sex on the first date. In the midst of so many interviews, what is mentioned most by people is that knowing the other, at least a little, is essential before sex. Therefore, they think it is rash to have sex right away.

Just like there are many people who already think the opposite. Who doesn't know if there will be a second possibility, so the best thing to do is to take advantage of the first.

Sex on the first date in the UK

Already in the United Kingdom, through a survey it was found that, in every five people, only one would have sex right away. And that, men are four times more likely to want to go to bed right away. In the same way that women are twice as likely to be asked to wait to fall in love first. Who often do not realize that they may well fall in love with them precisely because of sex.

People also need to take some points into consideration. Like, for example, how they met, where, how long it's been and so on. And of course, always protect yourself. After all, as much as you know some things about the person, you don't know them in every way. And trusting, in the sense of not needing to protect yourself sexually, is never a good option.

Now, an important tip: after sex, there's a way to know exactly if the other person thinks about something else or it was just that. Want to see?

If the person goes into a trance and after that, they turn their backs or say that you need to leave or that they're going, depending on where you are, they're not that into it. Who wants, desires, finds a way.

This must have happened to you after the ballad. The person leaves and doesn't even know if number or name. Yeah, she just wanted to get laid and that was it. There will be no continuation.

Now, if the conversation between you was nice, the conversation flowed, he/she commented about seeing each other again, contacts were exchanged, the chances of everything working out are much greater.

Sex on the first date: only days later you will know

Now an important point: nothing is certain. You'll have to wait the next few days to find out. That's because, he may even have said he would call, but you're not sure. Therefore, there is no point in deluding yourself. And yes, wait and see.

Just like the conversations between you in the future is what you will say about what will happen. He might come along and tell you that he just wants to keep having sex and doesn't want anything serious. In that case, you'll have to think about whether that's good for you. I say this because, there are those who accept it and some time later, make the other fall in love. No one commands the heart.

As for the other person disappearing after sex on the first date, there are two possibilities. Either that's all she wanted and that was it, or that, in fact, you ended up charging her or saying something that wasn't what she thought or wanted. In that case, a simple way for you to understand is that they simply weren't at the same time.

So, if possible, just try to make the most of the moment, satisfy yourself. So, for sure later, regardless of what happens between you, you won't regret it. That's what makes all the difference. How much are you willing to enjoy because you want to, you're into it and not because the other forced you or anything like that. Gradually you realize this and everything changes shape.

When you least realize it, you'll do things for your pleasure and that includes sex on the first date or not. Should other people's experiences influence your decisions? No way! They are your choices.

So don't let anyone else do it for you. Because they don't belong to others, nor will they ever be.

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