You know that person who doesn't want to have sex? Who do you have a relationship with for a long time or did it start now and it doesn't work? It's time to talk about her and what's been happening!
And the first point to be analyzed is since when this has happened and what could have caused the lack of wanting to have sex.
Source: Elle/Reproduction
That's because the reason can be quite varied. There are those who just don't get laid, for example, because they're not having a good time. Or have been frustrated in some sense when it comes to sex. Others because they suddenly don't feel like it. Some out of fear, pain. That's why finding out what has caused this to happen, or rather, not to happen, is fundamental. It will allow people to better understand the situation and not be anxious looking for hypotheses. Even for the fact that, who knows, that would only make the other person nervous to the point that, at the right time, when it arrives, he won't be able to.
After finding out why the person doesn't want to have sex, everything gets easier. In that case, the next tip involves talking to the person about or trying to help in some way. Yes, it is known that, in many relationships, the famous kick in the ass seems easier at this moment. But it sure isn't the best way out. If sex is really missing, in the meantime that the person is helped, masturbation is an excellent option.
But let it also be clear that there are people who don't like to have sex and that's it. In that case, there's not much you can do to help her. Just talk and explain that for you it is fundamental and that this will end up causing some conflicts.
Source: Oprah/Playback
A very interesting point when it comes to not wanting to have sex is that many people think that this only happens to women. But not. There are many relationships where it's the man who doesn't want it.
This is also the case for several reasons. In this case, the woman ends up getting even more tense, since sex is almost always part of the male instinct, and what usually happens is that sex doesn't even cross their minds. But it does happen and it's not uncommon.
Still on what to do to help, after talking a lot about it, one suggestion is to show the person that having sex is very good and that it can be different with you. For this, make sure you have some background music, in foreplay. Find a cool place that brings the idea of romance/sensuality and carry it. The most important thing is to make the other person secure enough for them to see that, yes, sex is delicious. And everything she had in her head until that moment will be changed. It saw? It's not much of a secret. Just enjoy the moment. And, yes, if you don't have the patience and/or the person really doesn't want to, it's best to finish.
Read now: he's not that good in bed!
