Handcuffs, chains, latex clothing, blindfolds and the like can be profoundly arousing during sex.
We're talking about the BDSM universe, where pleasure and pain go hand in hand. This practice has many fans and can be done with complete safety.
If you want to know more about this wild adventure, stay with us.
Masochism: how to go from pain to pleasure
Practitioners of acts involving pain and pleasure are part of BDSM. The acronym is made up of four words that have everything to do with the practices involved in this universe.
Find out what they are and what they mean:
Bondage: It is the act of tying the partner totally or partially. It is possible to use ropes, handcuffs, blindfolds, gags or any other object for this purpose.
Domination: Means having control over another person. In an erotic context, who dominates is the person with authority and power, responsible for what will happen.
Submission: It is the act of obeying the dominator. For a BDSM relationship to exist between two people, one of them will be dominant while the other will be submissive.
Masochism: The pleasure a person gets from being submissive. Masochism can come from physical pain, humiliation or the act of obeying the dominant.
Masochism: BSDM
It is important to make it clear that BDSM is a sexual practice like any other. This means that it involves two or more adult people, who explore pleasure together, of their own free will.
Under no circumstances can BDSM be used to justify a person being forced or obligated to do something.
Hence the importance of the SSC, an acronym that means Sane, Safe and Consensual. Whatever the practice of BDSM, it must be risk-free, safe and with everyone's consent.
From that, any fetish or practice can happen. In BDSM, as in any other relationship, respect is key.
As BDSM is a universe in which domination and submission are part of the pleasure, it is very important that partners can trust each other.
It is normal for the submissive to feel quite vulnerable during the act. Without trust in the partner, the person will have great difficulty in feeling pleasure or even in obeying the dominant.
Not by chance, who usually sets the limits, physical or psychological, is the person who submits. Gradually, as the relationship evolves, whoever dominates can propose overcoming limits.
sadism and masochism
Sadism is the pleasure in causing pain, while masochism is the pleasure in feeling pain. This pain can be physical or psychological.
In BDSM, the relationship between pleasure and pain takes place within an erotic context, with the consent of those involved. It's a way of exploring sexuality and there's nothing wrong with that.
As long as everyone is mutually respectful and the practices are safe, there is no reason to believe that there is anything wrong with the situation.
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