Talk about anal and oral it is still a taboo that, as a result, people are left without the correct information on how to do it and without knowing how good it is and how much it can spice up the relationship.
For men, practice is often an enigma that seems like it will never be unraveled and for women, it's like something that can only hurt.
Because of these already established preconceptions, little is said about the subject and this, which is a source of intense pleasure, is left aside.
That's why we're going to talk about anal sex without taboos. If you want to know more, just follow the article.
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It is very common to discuss this question, so it is common for the “pain” without testing to be greater than the pleasure that anal sex can bring.
Much is said about a pain that has not even been put to the test. So that, perhaps, is due to the fact that little is known about the subject.
Of course, we cannot deny that poorly performed anal sex will bring pain, yes! But rest assured, because we'll bring you some tips to make sure that doesn't happen.
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Let's not even go into the merits that it is very easy for men to put his penis in his partner's anus. The problem at hand is how to get the man's dick in his anus.
For those who have never tried this practice, fear is the first thing that comes to mind... But, for the pleasure, it's worth taking a risk, right?
There are some ways to train so that you finally lose fear and test with your partner. See one of them below:
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Do you know bath time? Then! Take the time to relax and experiment. So start stroking the anus in circular motions. Stimulate it to feel like it.
You won't necessarily feel like testing it with your partner on the same day, but you can try it during your showers until the urge comes. Felt? Call your partner to test. Ask him to introduce his finger until he feels comfortable for penetration.
The same thing is recommended here: you may not feel confident enough for penis penetration, but if you accept it with your finger, let it happen again until you gain confidence.
For penetration to be done without pain, the partner needs to take it easy. It's no use wanting to force something or go fast as the speed of light. When the muscles are relaxed it is easier to give and receive pleasure.
You have to maintain the hygiene of the place, okay? There is no secret or treatment for it. It's simple and you do it in the bath as you normally do.
The vagina has a natural lubricant, the anus does not. Therefore, for easier penetration and better movement, buy lubricant.
It's the first time? See which position is best for you. Your partner will certainly understand. The recommended thing is that he is lying down and you sit on top of his dick. Thus, it is you who controls the pace and intensity.
If you prefer sideways (shell style), know that your muscles will also be relaxed and ready to receive the anal. Also, men can stimulate the woman on the clitoris and by gently squeezing the breasts.
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Just like conventional sex, anal sex also needs stimuli. It never hurts to leave the woman completely excited during sex so that she feels attracted to the anal act.
You can also use toys such as vibrators, maybe your own finger, give some licks or sucks: invent what to do!
Now that you already know a little about anal sex, here are the best positions to test sex.
Oh, and I couldn't forget to say that the penetration for this sexual position is deep, which makes sex even more delicious!
Check out 6 positions that make anal sex easier, pleasurable and less intimidating.
1. Cowgirl (or cowboy): In the traditional cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you ride on top. With your partner on top, you can facilitate anal penetration by moving up or down as needed.
2. Doggy style (doggy style) : This position is most often associated with the anal because it has great advantages. With the partner “on all fours”, you can let go while controlling the penetration to increase the pleasure.
3. Face to face (face to face): This position is preferred if you are looking for extra intimacy during the act. Start with your partner sitting down while you straddle his lap, face to face. Again – with your partner on top, you can control the depth of penetration to stay comfortable. Face-to-face anal has the added bonus of extra stimulation for a woman: breasts, clitoris, go crazy!
4. Good old missionary with a twist (“Good old missionary with a twist”) : When it comes to anal, the "missionary" will never steer you wrong. Get closer to that favorite sex position with a tap on the back door: in the missionary position, put your legs on his shoulders. With the right amount of lube and relaxation, even initial penetration should be pleasurable.
Anal on the stomach is comfortable and easy, with the right preparation beforehand. Beginners can relax and make penetration enjoyable by lying on top of a pillow placed under their stomach. For women, this lifts the back well and still gives enough room to stimulate other parts of the body.
6. Spooning, with a twist :You can give your partner a better view of the action by keeping your upper leg just below the knee and opening up.”
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Now you know the safest way, as well as tips for positions during anal sex. If you don't like it, don't insist and keep investing in conventional sex, okay?
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