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Faking Orgasm: Reasons Why They Fake It
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Faking orgasm is a sad fact, however, very common. Find out why women end up faking it and some tips on how to give amazing orgasms
Faking orgasm is commonplace for a large portion of women. According to a study carried out by USP (University of São Paulo), about 55% of women in Brazil do not reach orgasm during sexual intercourse.
In addition, 59% of respondents reported feeling pain during sex, a factor that may contribute to the absence of orgasm.
Why do some women not reach orgasm?
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The absence of orgasm is called anorgasmia, a condition that can affect both sexes, however, it occurs more frequently among women.
Many fail to 'get there' even if they are stimulated correctly, however, lack of sufficient stimulation can be a contributing factor to the problem.
A recent study pointed out that anorgasmia affects 35% of Brazilian women and there are some reasons for this absence:
Health conditions: Diabetes and other illnesses can affect a woman's sex life and ability to reach orgasm.
Aging: Over time, some women's sexual desire may decrease, as well as the ease of achieving orgasms.
Surgeries: Surgical processes such as hysterectomy, which consists of removing the uterus, can contribute to anorgasmia.
Use of medications: The use of drugs, mainly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, can have side effects such as reduced sexual desire and difficulties in reaching orgasm.
Religious beliefs: Some religious beliefs make some women believe that sex should only have procreation as a goal. That way, allowing yourself to feel pleasure can be very difficult and bring a feeling of guilt.
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Stress: Having a stressful routine at work, with children or studying, can make your sex life difficult and determine your ability to reach climax.
Shyness: It can be quite difficult to overcome shyness, it often requires therapy so that the person can better deal with their own sexuality.
Low self esteem: Having a bad view of yourself can hinder the ability to feel and give pleasure, because of this, women are unable to completely let go of themselves in bed, making it difficult to enjoy pleasure and, consequently, orgasm.
Abuse history: Sexual abuse is a trauma that is difficult to overcome and disrupts the victims' sex lives. In these cases, therapy is necessary, so that sexual life can be satisfactory over time.
Relationship issues: Problems in the marital relationship can promote a lack of trust and affect the sex life.
Why do some pretend?
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Cosmopolitan magazine conducted a survey, which interviewed 2300 women and 67% of them revealed that they had faked orgasms at some point. Among the most common reasons are:
Fear of frustrating partner
The fear of frustrating the partner is the most common reason. Many women fake orgasm to please and not hurt male pride.
Insecurity
Insecurity can make them fake it. Many women believe that the lack of orgasm is their fault, so they prefer to pretend rather than deal with this issue.
boring sex
A bad fuck can make the woman pretend to have reached climax so that the relationship ends more quickly.
Tiredness
Tiredness is one of the most common reasons for faking an orgasm. Many women even manage to 'get there', however, on days when they are tired it becomes more difficult.
Ignorance of one's own body
Knowing our anatomy is important for a satisfying sex life. The best way to achieve this is through masturbation, however, many women are hesitant to touch themselves for various reasons such as religious beliefs or repressive upbringing.
Tips for reaching orgasm
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Relax the mind: At the H hour, worries should be put aside, if you can't, it's best to leave the sex for another time.
Enjoy yourself: Knowing the body is important, as we have already said. The best thing is to enjoy a few moments of solitary pleasure, touching yourself and getting to know the places in your body that provide the most satisfaction.
Invest in erotic toys: Invest in vibrators and other sex toys. It can be a lot of fun and a good way to climax.
Use lubricant: Some lubricants can help with sexual intercourse, as they make the skin more sensitive to incoming stimuli.
Use a pillow: Placing a pillow under your buttocks can give you more pleasure in sex. The slope provided makes the “G-Spot” easier to reach.
Faking orgasms is not cool and women should definitely stop, as it leads to a lot of pressure and unsatisfying intimate relationships. Couples or individual therapy can help with this issue by promoting greater knowledge about the couple's sexual desires.
