Exhibitionism is part of the huge list of paraphilias. This term is used to describe stimulating sexual fantasies or behaviors involving objects, people or situations.
There are several curious paraphilias, some are common and others are quite rare. Among the most common are:
Podolatry: Excitement by feet.
Voyeurism: Desire for watching other people while having sex. Often times voyeurists feel more horny by spying without the other person's knowledge.
Narratophilia: Excitement when speaking or hearing obscene words.
Stigmatophilia: Attraction to people with tattoos or piercings.
Chronophilia: Having sexual partners with a large age difference.
Exhibitionism is also among the most common and it is about it that we will learn a little more:
This term encompasses a lot. It could be enjoying outdoor sex, masturbation, or any other sexual act in front of other people. There are different degrees of exhibitionism, what determines is the type of situation.
What leads a person to like a certain fetish still does not have a concrete explanation, however, some researches reveal that people who always shower with others or the habit of being without clothes in front of other people, are more prone to exhibitionism.
Personality can also influence this desire. People who like to be the center of attention can become exhibitionists.
Some theories claim that testosterone levels, ADHD, traumatic injuries or trauma, may be more contributing factors to some fetishes, such as exhibitionism.
While there are those who love to show off, there are voyeurists, people who get excited by watching others in intimate situations. Voyeurs go hand in hand with exhibitionists, as one fetish complements the other.
Anasyrma: Lifting up skirt without wearing panties to show off genitalia.
Candaulism: Expose the partner to other people. Lifting your shirt, showing your genitals, etc.
Martymachlia: Enjoying being watched while having sex. This is the most common form of exhibitionism.
By phone: Getting excited by making obscene phone calls. Sometimes it can be for known people, but generally, this type of exhibitionist likes to call people who don't want that type of call.
It is likely that you recognize some signs that are not decisive, but may indicate that you have the exhibitionist fetish:
Does the idea of being naked in front of other people excite you?
Has it ever crossed your mind to have sex in front of others?
Do you like the idea of masturbating in parks, streets and other places where you risk being seen?
Do you like to dress in a way that attracts attention from others?
If the idea excites you, you can become a beginner at consensual exhibitionism with the help of your partner or alone. Some interesting ideas are:
You can find places where you can go without clothes without fear, like nude beaches or sex parties;
Create a video of yourself masturbating or showing off in a sexy way and send it to your partner;
Finding private places to have sex, such as your window at home or a friend's bathroom;
Waiting for your partner to come home from work while completely undressed;
Show off on platforms like OnlyFans or play a video on a porn site;
Leaving the house while using a vibrator or sex toy under your clothes.
Exhibitionism is a perfectly natural fetish, however it must be done consensually. This makes the experience much safer and more interesting, guilt-free. The places where this type of fetishist can feel free are few, however, with a good search you can find other exhibitionists.
