Dominatrix is a term that has become quite popular in recent years. Many men like to be dominated by women, although prejudice makes some hide this fetish.
The term dominatrix it is part of BDSM, an acronym that denominates several sexual practices that involve submission, sadomasochism and others. All these practices are consensual and generally everything that will be done is arranged in advance.
The history of the female dominatrix goes back thousands of years. Ancient texts cite the existence of a strong, dominant woman who made men and gods submit to her. Over time, this term gained strength, but the dominatrix as a professional emerged in brothels during the Middle Ages.
In the XNUMXth century, dominatrixes gained strength in Europe. There were establishments where submission practices took place. These places were distinct from brothels and known as "Houses of Discipline".
In the XNUMXth century, the equipment used for this practice appeared. Rubber, leather and objects clothes began to become popular, however, several myths were emerging about this theme.
The first one is to think that all dominatrix, or domme, as they are also called, are call girls. Domination may or may not involve sex. Many women work without the customer being allowed to touch her.
A dominatrix, domme or dominatrix, is a woman who is attracted to physically or psychologically dominating her partner. This will be called "submissive".
In the BDSM community there are two main types of dominatrix: The first explore their fetishes with their partner at specific times. The second type is those who assume this dominant role on a permanent basis. These women make their partners submissive all the time, sometimes this is the foundation of the relationship.
To be a dominatrix, you need to have careful communication with your partner. This and any other activity must be carried out with the consent and interest of the other person, so take this as a principle.
If you're reading this article, you probably want to get started if you haven't already. It's not always easy to express what you want, so try to probe the other person.
Show whether by talking or through signs, your interest. Watch how the other person reacts, whether or not the idea appeals to you. Suggest films about the practice, show materials or any other interesting resource.
The decision can be made in conversation, however, making a list can help a lot. Decide what can be done and what is prohibited, after all it is important to know whether or not those involved like a certain act, so that the experience is not frustrating.
Performing a fetish implies experiencing that situation without any judgments. Treat the other person's wishes with due respect, after all, human sexuality is quite vast.
To be a dominatrix you need to have a lot of confidence. Focus, take control and leave shyness aside, show the woman you are.
Instead of focusing on sex, take the opportunity to create pleasant moments, making new discoveries and games.
Accessories are a key part of the experience. Learn how to use the props before starting a domination session. Handcuffs, whips, blindfolds and others can make everything even sexier, however, the ideal is always to start with lighter options.
A dominatrix needs to show all her power and body posture says a lot about that. Keep yourself straight, your partner's subconscious will know you're in charge.
Before starting such an experience, it is necessary to agree on a safe word with the partner. This will help the submissive if the dominatrix crosses the line.
In conclusion, having fetishes is something completely common, and being a dominatrix, in addition to providing pleasure, serves as a tool for liberation and self-knowledge.
