A female masturbation it is a pleasure still little explored by women themselves, which often makes pleasure for two difficult. The lack of self-knowledge causes them to end up having their partner's sex life, without paying attention to themselves. But why does this happen?
Female masturbation – Image:pornpics
Even today there are several taboos related to masturbation, especially female masturbation. From an early age, girls have their relationship with the body repressed, both by parents and by society. Catholic guilt still plagues the community, and the feeling of “doing something wrong” is one of the reasons women are reprimanded for their intimacy.
The result is: few know how to enjoy only with the help of their own hands. That's why, in today's post, we're going to talk about how to find pleasure alone, develop self-knowledge and, as a consequence, be happier in the world. sex for two!
Girl touching herself. Image:pornpics
One of the ways to start understanding what you like is to know your body. We are talking anatomically. Sit with your legs apart in front of a mirror, admire yourself, touch, discover where it is most pleasurable.
You will notice that the clitoris is the most sensitive and prone place to be stimulated during female masturbation. That's because he has more than 8 nerve endings and is responsible for more than 70 % of orgasms in women. Learning to handle your own clitoris will cause you intense orgasms and after a while of practice, even fast!
The first big step to enjoy with your own hands is to stop seeing your own body as something liable to shame or embarrassment, and to start seeing it as natural and likely to give you pleasure.
how to cum with your hands. Alexander Krivitskiy, Unsplash.
Masturbation is a unique moment between you and your body, so what matters here is what you like. Also, there are no rules other than your own satisfaction. Remember: inside your head, no one can judge you, so don't repress yourself! Self-repression is the enemy of orgasms.
During masturbation, it is normal to use stimuli to generate excitement. These stimuli can be porn movies, erotic books or even imagination itself. What makes you most excited? Use this to get to the land of dreams!
Also, test which position you are most comfortable with. Lying down? Four? Lying on your front with your legs spread? Don't forget that you can move around, change positions, move and moan to yourself during masturbation.
how to cum with your hands, Hanna Postova, Unsplash.
After going through the process of knowing your body, the tendency is that you want to do more of the same, after all “in a winning team, don't move”. Even when we talk about female masturbation, it is interesting that what worked is repeated yes, but also, new possibilities are explored.
Masturbating in a new position or another room in the house? How about testing a vibrator? Or a butt plug maybe? Remember that there are many things that can be done in sex and you have the right to experience them!
