Do you know the main causes of premature ejaculation? The problem, which affects around ¼ of Brazilian men, consists of the difficulty of maintaining an erection for the time necessary for sexual pleasure, as ejaculation occurs very quickly.
Unlike situations where she was too hot to handle or you stayed a while without having sex and ended up going too fast, premature ejaculation is a constant: the episode is repeated several times, leading to sexual dissatisfaction for the couple.
If premature ejaculation occurs twice, there is a problem! Image: Pornpics.com
To be considered a problem that needs treatment, doctors say men should keep track of the following measure: How much can you satisfy your partner? If the answer is that she leaves dissatisfied 50% of the time, then really, something needs to be done.
That's what you read. The main cause of premature ejaculation is anxiety. Whether it's the concern with the quality of sexual performance, fear of being judged by appearance, size, etc. or inexperience.
That's why it's a very common problem in adolescence, when all these existing fears are potentiated. However, there is no age for developing the problem. External reasons such as work, financial life, children, among other things, can raise men's anxiety so much that they will develop premature ejaculation.
Although the tendency is for the problem to disappear over time, there are effective treatments to help men go through this moment and regain their sexual health.
The “you're too hot” excuse only works once! Image: Pornpics.com
As mentioned above, the diagnosis includes self-observation of the man and his partner, in addition to the physician's clinical observations and a patient's history. In most cases, men arrive with the complaint of not being able to satisfy their partner.
Already the treatment of premature ejaculation relies mainly on psychotherapy - after all, its main cause is anxiety, a type of mental disorder. Antidepressants can also be used, as they increase the amount of serotonin in the brain - the happiness hormone.
The problem has treatment and is temporary. Image: Pornpics.com
We joke around, but the matter is serious. Premature ejaculation is not the one that happens after twenty minutes of sex, in fact, this is the average time of a relationship between adults. Little? We do too. But it can get worse.
Men with premature ejaculation take an average of two minutes to come – two minutes! Can you imagine the size of the couple's frustration? And women, make no mistake. It's just as bad for him as it is for you. They also want to make the most of the moment by prolonging sex for as long as possible.
So be patient girls. Premature ejaculation is treatable, it's not a permanent condition and he will definitely appreciate your support during this difficult time.
