If you've never heard of a safe word, welcome to your first time. In this post, primarily, we are going to talk about the origin of the term, why you and your partner should each define yours and also some examples to inspire you.
First of all, the idea of asafe word”, or safe word, in English, is very well known among people who practice fetishes, mainly the community BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism. Now, if you don't know much about the term, we have several articles on each of these topics and even a guide on how to start practicing. It's worth a look, isn't it?
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You know when you're having sex with someone and you feel uncomfortable and want to stop? I know you've been there and then there were times when it was easy to say “no” and other times it was impossible, so much so that you just waited for the sex to end. for practitioners of kinks, as we mentioned before, a safe word like choosing “no”, when that word can be the incentive for someone else?
In this sense, to demarcate that they want to stop, have reached the limit or simply can't take it anymore – be it pain, be it the game itself, or the sexual act – the community has created what we are calling safety words.
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The idea of a safe word is that this “no” moment is one hundred percent clear, unquestionable, and also, that it is obeyed immediately. In other words, as soon as the safe word is said, the partner must stop, regardless of how pleasurable the practice may have been for him.
Definitely one of the things that most surprise non-practitioners of BDSM is to find out how much they value consent. Something everyone who has sex should do.
Therefore, we are here to suggest that you try having one of these words, even if you are not a practitioner of BDSM. Often times, the word “no” itself can be frightening and difficult to say. However, using a safe word such as choosing can facilitate the dynamic between the couple and avoid the “climate”.
Care must be taken with how to choose a safeword. This is because it should not be negative, as we have already commented, words like “not","firewall”, can be an incentive for dominators and sadists. Therefore, it is interesting that the safe word is an easy word to say and remember, and also a pleasant term.
See the list of tips for objects that can be good safety words and also examples for you to be inspired by, or maybe just pick one that sounds good.
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Did you notice that all these words bring an air of warmth? This is the idea! Let the safety word demonstrate what the person is wanting and not having at that moment: comfort.
And there? Which of these ideas did you like the most? I would use one of them safe word?
