Continuing the sequence of our series Unraveling the acronym BDSM, the topic of today's post is Bondage and Discipline, B/D. The acronym in question has complementary meanings, contrary to what happens in most cases according to the logic of BDSM. For example, domination versus submission, sadism versus masochism, however, Bondage and Discipline can go together, Bondage being one of the possible actions of discipline.
Unraveling the acronym BDSM will explain the 6 terms included in the acronym: Domination and submission (D/s), Bondage and Discipline (B/D) and finally, Sadism and Masochism (S/M).
In addition, B/D can be mixed with other BDSM practices, as a form of domination or punishment of a submissive who was disobedient to his master. Practice can also be used during a role play of sadism and masochism, likewise, inflicting pain through punishment or restriction of movement.
Without further ado, let's understand what it means to abbreviation B/D.
Woman restricted by binding, Bondage. Image: pornpics.com
Bondage is a BDSM practice that restricts a partner's movements by trapping or tying them up. In this sense, some of the accessories that can be used for Bondage and discipline are ropes, handcuffs, blindfolds, collars, gags, adhesive tape (there is a specific tape for BDSM that just sticks to itself and does not pull hairs or hurt the skin when it is removed) etc.
The aim is to cause a sensory and erotic experience. In addition, some people also practice Bondage for aesthetic purposes, as is often the case with Shibari, a Japanese bonding technique.
Shibari, Japanese bonding practice used in Bondage. Image: charlesdeluvio, Unsplash.
Generally, Bondage is a means to a greater goal. This goal could be either an orgasm or restricting the partner to facilitate other BDSM practices like domination or sadism. For those who see the act as something aesthetic, Bondage can be used by itself, without the need for complementary practices.
Of the BDMS practices, we at Adult Vip believe that the easiest one to start with is Bondage. For example, practitioners reveal that tying a partner brings about a feeling of power and a sense of complete control over the other. Now, how about trying it out and heating things up with your partner? We reinforce that all sexual practices must be consensual!
spanking session. Image: pornpics.com
As the name implies, discipline is the act of disciplining the submissive person when he does not comply with the rules agreed between the BDSM practitioner pair. Constantly, the act of disciplining must be defined by the dominator and can involve anything from physical punishment, such as spanking, to psychological humiliation or the B itself.wave.
The rules can be broken unintentionally or on purpose, in other words, the rules can be broken with the intention of receiving punishment. Submissives who like to break the rules, challenging their dominator, are called brat, which basically means mischievous or mischievous child.
Just as there are brats, there are dominators who are not drawn to the idea of disciplining a mischievous submissive. So this type of dominator is called a brat tamer, i.e. tamer of mischievous child.
In conclusion, in addition to punishments for bad behavior, discipline also involves constantly offering rewards to the submissive for good behavior. The rewards can be defined by the couple involved in the practice and range from gifts such as new accessories to role plays.
