You are most likely familiar with dating platforms or apps. What is successful among users of these apps is Tinder, but you still end up meeting a lot of people in general. Grindr, for example, is more aimed at the gay public and if you don't know it, come and meet us now!
Before we talk about Grindr, let's talk a little bit about how meeting new people is good… Sometimes we're so low, and all we need is a little shake in life to get us going. Whether it's to meet good friends or even your romantic partner, the fact is that the options are sometimes scarce, and that's what Grindr exists for.
The methodology of Grindr is practically the same as that of tinder. Some things like the design and targeted audience are different, but the dynamic is the same: find people nearby with the same gender and tastes (maybe).
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You can add an image to your profile, make a brief (or not) description about yourself, you can filter the search for people by location, you can block unwanted people and do many other things.
But you must be wondering: “ok, but how do you use Grindr?”. Well, come with me and now is the time to teach you!
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Before going out flirting, you need to download the app on your cell phone. Don't worry, the app is available for Android (through Play Store) and for iOS (through the App Store).
Now you need to open the app you downloaded, so go to your home screen and click on the app that has an orange icon. Afterwards, click on “sign up” to create an account and then fill in the required data in the small form that will appear.
You can also opt in directly by linking your Facebook details to the Grindr app. Agree to the app's terms of use and then start building your profile. Tap on “add photo” to add a picture to your profile (be careful, huh? You never know when you're going to bump into your sweetheart.
Then fill in your name along with age and finish editing the profile. Then click on “next” to activate the profile and that's it! You can now go out matching and talking to other men…
It is important to remember that if you want a serious relationship, you need to activate a filter to receive people who, like you, are also looking for a serious relationship.
And in case of casual sex, don't forget to protect yourself against diseases... It's important to protect yourself so you don't acquire these diseases, after all, you're going out with someone you barely know.
If you're reading this article, it's because you're probably wanting to get to know the Grindr app, right? So, below, you'll see some tips on what not to do within the app. Check out:
The point is to flirt, isn't it? But some things you do could be holding you back from getting a first date. Usually people do things that they don't even imagine are the ones that take away the opportunity… So come with me and find out what not to do in the Grindr chats.
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Starting a conversation with “hi” can be more shy than you might think. It seems normal to start a conversation with a simple “hello”, but in a dating app, people expect more than a “hi” or the script of a common conversation: “hi, how are you? Where do you live? What are you studying?” and so on…
How about being a little bolder and leaving a compliment in the conversation of the boy you sympathized with? The secret is to get out of the rule and start a more interesting conversation. Escape -literally- the clichés.
Pets, landscapes and scenery can be beautiful and charming (to you). Never hide behind these photos and never put them up no matter how much you appear... This can be totally decisive when the person returns the match, and if he doesn't like it, that's it, he lost his chance.
Another important point to talk about wrong photos is: using fake photos or photos that cover the face. Usually other men do not see this with good eyes and in fact, something is wrong. Not even the most desperate of desperate men would accept getting involved with a person who can't show who he really is.
Lying about the photo is not ok and lying about yourself is even less so. When making your description in your profile, be sincere, after all, what do you have to hide? It's very annoying to make an appointment with someone, arrive at the place and realize that the person is totally different from what they promoted.
If on the one hand you can omit about yourself, on the other hand it can also happen. Get smart, huh? Be wary of photos covering the face with caps and glasses, and for your safety, always confirm that they are the same faces in all the photos available on the cat's profile (you can check the body too, see?).
It will be almost impossible to go through a profile and not see a picture of the belly, biceps, butt and others. You are not obliged to put it in your profile either, okay?
Speaking of slightly more sensual photos, if the cat wants to send nudes (and you want to receive them), that's totally fine. But if you don't want to expose yourself and have pressure, don't submit, okay? You can make a date if it makes you more comfortable, or you can block it.
If, on the one hand, starting the conversation in a different way than with “hi” can be very nice, arriving with “heavy” questions at first can also be very bad.
That is, arriving wanting to know if the boy is passive or active, if he already wants to have sex and go out with you today, can be scary. Take it easy, after all, quiet conversations before the date are better than heavier sex on the date.
Reversing the roles can leave the boy (and even you) a little disconcerted when it comes time to see. And then, all that propaganda and expectation created before, can go down the drain
If, on the one hand, having pleasant conversations online can be great, in person even more so. Do not limit yourself to virtual regime and only. Of course, all care must be taken, so if possible, search for him on Facebook, Instagram and who knows a peek on YouTube about the videos he has already liked.
Finally, if you have mutual friends, even better. Don't mince words when asking about the boy to find out if he is trustworthy or not.
Okay, now you know how to use the Grindr app and what not to do when making first contact with the boy.
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